I've found that it`s a good thing to go through heartache at one point or another in your lifetime. Not the petty, childhood heartache. But the horrible kind we've experienced.
But you see, when you get to the healing part of this, you will have so much love to share with someone. You will be able to appreciate someone in ways even you cannot understand.
You will be so much stronger than you were before.
I know how much this sucks right now and I know it seems unfair, but when it's all said and done with, this will all make sense. All this pain you are going through at this moment will eventually teach you some of the greatest lessons in life you will ever need to learn.
The main thing I learned?
If you aren't willing to put up with a little pain, you won't go far. With every journey you'll get scratches & bruises, but if you really love it, those scratches will be worth it.
And you wouldn't really notice them because you take the pain with the joy.